Adults or Children??

Well here I am, I am gonna bitch yet again.. Yeah I know I do that a lot here. But hey I can, its my blog. LOL.. OK SO here it is..

I am so sick of grown adults acting like children. Hell we are not in the 5th grade any more. Really, we can have more then one friend and still get alone can't we?

A few days ago I found out a friend of mine was mad at me, had been since before the holidays. Yeah I know, nice of them to let me know huh? Well anyhows, I guess I was talking bad about her and didn't know it.. But what it all boils down to. is people putting words in my mouth again. I really hate that.. I have always been the type of person who will tell ya like it is in a heart beat. I really don't care what others think of me. If you don't like me, then GOOD, at least your one less person I have to worry about in this life. However I when I do have a good friend, I cherish them and place them pretty much first in my life. well besides my family who is always number 1 and will come before ANYONE...

OK Back to the story LOL.... you see I held a Yule Gathering here at my home back in Dec. It was a lot of fun. there was a lot of people here. some arrived on Friday night and stayed till Sunday and others came and left on Saturday.. Let me tell ya, there sure was a lot of energy in this house. But then there should have been. Hell it was a house filled with Witches. LOL... But a weekend I really enjoyed none the less..

We all visited, did readings for each other, had dirty bingo and won other gifts in drawings.. Someone lost the games list. LOL... Well during one of the readings I was getting, I told a kid how I helpped this friend of mine out... Well I guess that was talking bad and he went back and told this friend I said all kinds of things... This pisses me off to no end... DO NOT PUT WORDS INTO MY MOUTH. I AM PRETTY GOOD AT SPEAKING MYSELF I DON'T NEED ANY HELP.

Well My friend decided she had no reason for not believing this person and decided it was ok to not talk to me about it and to not talk to me at all until she arrived back from her vacation and sent me an email ending our friendship.. well to say I was hurt is an understatement...

So now I write this friend back, and tell her what I am about to say here...
"If people want to know something , ask me, I will tell ya... if anyone thinks I would harm another in any way, then they never knew me to begin with..." was some of the things said....

Well right now I am to hurt to speak to her and work this all out.. I am to old to play these kind of games with people and I refuse to play them.. From this day on, I will keep my mouth shut and that also means that while others are talking bad and putting people down, I will not be sticking up for them nor will I be telling these others to shut up I don't want to hear it.. I will let them ramble and then move on with my day... I am tired of all the child games and if thats what these so called adults want to do, then so be it.. But they will not get another rise out of me from this day on...

OK can ya'll tell that this upset me to no end? I will be returning the keys to my so called friend of her house and business and getting my craft items back along with my daughters moonstone back. then this is over.

So from this point on. I will be home more and taking care of my family..

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I bet you thought I was done huh? LOL. Nope there is some other news to tell ya all. LOL, Not to worry this is a good thing depending on how ya'll look at it. LOL...

on Dec 21st I was given custody of my 15 year old neice. Well not by blood. But have known her mother and family since my early childhood and I am this girls godmother. just not on paper...

However this is not a bad girl. Yes at the age of 13 she was a little wild and stole her mothers car. well she did that a lot. and her mother thought she had a gas leak in it for months before she found out what was going on. Well Samantha, (the 15 y/o) was placed on Probation for it, (PINS) and was doing ok for a while.. well here we are a few years later and this young lady decides that she no longer likes school and is not going to go and does not care about the law.. Now she is not a bad Kid, She stays home and never runs the streets.. But thats the problem.. She likes to saty home, which means no school... Well the judge gave her to me instead of placing her in a home in New Jersey. So now she is back in school and just finished her 10th full day of it this past friday. reminder, school started last Sept.. so ten full days since Sept. LOL... But she now has no choice or she will never be placed back with her mother and as long as she is on probation she can not quit school even if she turns 16.. Bummer for her.. But she is going and she is playing the game the way she needs to in order to see her Mom or even to be placed back home with her mom.... But in all things are going well... I am glad I took her..

OK Now I am done... I know about time huh? Hey I had a lot to say this time.. Besides it might be a few weeks before I post again.. LOL... OK I hope you all have a wonderful week to come and I will be checking out all the blogs and commenting tonight. I promise... LOL... HUGGZ ALL